An open letter to my dear friend Margaret, When I think of you and our years spent working together to promote the prevention of several common causes of mental retardation, I remember you as a very busy organizer, wife, mother and wold traveler. I remember the many trips you and Bob and I took back and forth across New York State. I remember how the closet of our district legistors became our hideaway for our suitcases and pamplets while we strolled the halls of the state legislature. We were a formidable trio who met with legislators to promote an idea to prevent disabilities, a renowned scientist and two mothers of mentally disabled children. I can still see some of them shutter as we walked in their office and sat in front of them. I remember the parties, small and large you hosted in your home for guests from all over the world. You made everyone feel comfortable no matter how far away from their own home each of them was. You were always there to support Bob in his work.You sat patiently as he talked on the telephone from morning to night to his entourage of global friends and scientists. I remember your kind and loving patience with Johnny as he moved into a group home. I especially appreciated the example you set for me as my own son Bob soon followed suit. We spoke often about the strange feelings and trepidation we each shared as our boys moved on in their own world to become independent people. Our families worked together to promote the prevention of developmental disabilities. That work sometimes included lugging heavy boxes of literature, setting up a car seat check, planning conferences or doing an interview for the media. We can be thankful for our efforts along with similar efforts of thousands of safety advocates. Today, all 50 states have adult seat belt laws, 47 have bicycle helmet laws, warning labels about the dangers of drinking alcohol during pregnancy are printed on alcoholic beverages, children who have been exposed to lead paint receive early treatment and students in health education classes learn about the importance of producing a healthy generation. You will be missed my dear Friend, but you leave behind a legacy that will stand long after you enter the pearly gates. You believed in and stood for the slogan on the buttons we wore with pride. To Our Childrne's Children. Well done, good and faithful servant. With love and respect. Your Friend, Joan D. Harms